
BDSM, Ownership, and Embodying the Empowered Submissive
Is it possible to be an empowered submissive? Here’s how redefining the concept of “ownership” can help powerful women release into their partner (and experience more pleasure than ever).

How to Find Erotic Literature That Actually Turns You On
Erotic literature that actually turns you on AND is well-written? That can be tricky business. Find out how a writer and book lover finds just the right amount of fuel for her fire (and guides you to do the same).

3 keys to creating a post-conventional sacred monogamous relationship
Monogamy is sometimes regarded as an archaic relationship paradigm. But, when you create a post-conventional sacred monogamous relationship, you can experience unparalleled intimacy and joy together. Here’s how…

Travel Guide: Joshua Tree
A haven for me personally — and a client-favorite for our retreats — I’m finally dishing out my recommendations for where to stay and what to do in Joshua Tree, California.

Travel Guide: Sedona
Is Sedona really as “sacred” as it’s reputed to be? I set off on a desert adventure to find out.

6 Tips for Wellness Retreat Reintegration
Have you ever gone to a retreat or workshop, only to find that your “transformation” disappears the minute you get home? Here’s how to use your senses to help you with wellness retreat reintegration.

Desert Dreaming in Joshua Tree
How much could *possibly* change in a few short days? As it turns out… a lot. Just ask the guests of our recent Joshua Tree Desert Dreams retreat. Here, we welcome you into an inside view of our journey. wild nature

Superhuman Cacao Smoothie Recipe
Inspired by a delightful smoothie we encountered in Peru, this cacao concoction energizes, sustains, and nourishes you at every level.

The Best Coffee and Cacao Recipe
Good coffee is great medicine, especially when you add these sacred ingredients to your brew.

10 Tips for Medicine Ceremony Reintegration
Wondering about medicine ceremony reintegration? After sitting in ceremony—or any type of deeply spiritual/shamanic work—it can be challenging to re-integrate back into daily “normal” life. Read on for 10 simple tips on HOW to step back into your life.

A Cosmic Birth Story
In my mind, I expected this birth to be harder than my first. I thought, “There is no way I can have it that good again. It almost wouldn’t be fair.” …

BDSM, Ownership, and Embodying the Empowered Submissive
Is it possible to be an empowered submissive? Here’s how redefining the concept of “ownership” can help powerful women release into their partner (and experience more pleasure than ever).

How to Find Erotic Literature That Actually Turns You On
Erotic literature that actually turns you on AND is well-written? That can be tricky business. Find out how a writer and book lover finds just the right amount of fuel for her fire (and guides you to do the same).

3 keys to creating a post-conventional sacred monogamous relationship
Monogamy is sometimes regarded as an archaic relationship paradigm. But, when you create a post-conventional sacred monogamous relationship, you can experience unparalleled intimacy and joy together. Here’s how…

Travel Guide: Joshua Tree
A haven for me personally — and a client-favorite for our retreats — I’m finally dishing out my recommendations for where to stay and what to do in Joshua Tree, California.

Travel Guide: Sedona
Is Sedona really as “sacred” as it’s reputed to be? I set off on a desert adventure to find out.

6 Tips for Wellness Retreat Reintegration
Have you ever gone to a retreat or workshop, only to find that your “transformation” disappears the minute you get home? Here’s how to use your senses to help you with wellness retreat reintegration.

Desert Dreaming in Joshua Tree
How much could *possibly* change in a few short days? As it turns out… a lot. Just ask the guests of our recent Joshua Tree Desert Dreams retreat. Here, we welcome you into an inside view of our journey. wild nature

Superhuman Cacao Smoothie Recipe
Inspired by a delightful smoothie we encountered in Peru, this cacao concoction energizes, sustains, and nourishes you at every level.

The Best Coffee and Cacao Recipe
Good coffee is great medicine, especially when you add these sacred ingredients to your brew.

10 Tips for Medicine Ceremony Reintegration
Wondering about medicine ceremony reintegration? After sitting in ceremony—or any type of deeply spiritual/shamanic work—it can be challenging to re-integrate back into daily “normal” life. Read on for 10 simple tips on HOW to step back into your life.
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Lola L’Amour is a designer of sensual spaces, lover of life + eros, and relationship/intimacy muse. Follow her latest shares, stories, and finds @lo.lamour on IG.
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